I know what you are going through. Around year 30 of my marriage, my wife and I were headed for divorce. Worse, this was happening while I was going to counseling school! We arrived at the place where, if we had felt at first as we did then, we would have never married. The difference was we were formerly in love and we let that flame burn out.
Fortunately, I applied to my own marriage the relationship tools and skills that I was learning in school and we were able to revive the flame.
I can help you revive the flame as well.
Kranz and Associates, LLC
13214 Parkhurst Ct, Riverview, FL 33569